Leave a note at checkout with your phrase to be stamped on your charm. 2-3 letter phrases & symbols are stamped on small charms & large phrases (max 7 letters at longest point) are stamped on larger charms. If your phrase will not fit, you will be contacted immediately to discuss other options. Tassel choices are based on what looks best with your gemstone bracelet color, unless you choose based on the tassel grid photo and leave detailed note at checkout. Get creative!